Just quite disheartened at the moment. He is actually now moaning that I don't say well done because he is trying so hard! Well done for what exactly? For being on an abstinence program and still drinking, for drinking slightly less than every day, or for making plans with me all the time then drinking instead? What excatly should I be grateful for out of that?
Where's the Control?
I want it. I don’t have it. In fact, no one seems to have it. It’s completely disappeared. I know for sure he doesn’t have it. But is he going to find it? If only I knew that answer.
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Books I have found useful
- 59 Seconds: Think a little, change a lot by Richard Wiseman
- Codependent No More by Melody Beattie
- How Al-Anon Works: For Families and Friends of Alcoholics by Al-Anon Family Group
- Living with the Black Dog: How to Cope When Your Patner is Depressed by Caroline Carr
- Shoot the Damn Dog: A Memoir of Depression by Sally Brampton
- The New Codependency by Melody Beattie
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